First 14 days

The first 14 days or 2 weeks of giving birth to the child is like unfolding a new world of parenthood both for the mother and the father. There are doubts, confusions, happiness, pain, joy, responsibilities, love and care surrounded around your baby.

The doctors and nurses at the hospitals make the most to extend comfort and care to the mother and the baby, but as soon as the baby comes home it’s a different world! Here is what to expect in the first 14 days of giving birth to your child!

Feeding the baby

A newborn should be fed within an hour of being born. Starting from mother’s first milk to learning to feed them every 2 hours, the mothers go through a learning phase to connect to the child. The skin-to-skin touch, latching of the baby, breastfeeding and making the baby burp are all joyous experience that comes as learning. The baby too learns to bond with the mother and take the feed. It gets easier by the hour.

Pooping and peeing

Like a baby needs to be fed every 2 hours, they are prone to peeing and pooping multiple times too. One can expect a newborn to wet 6-8 diapers a day. This includes a few sessions of soft bowel movements because the baby is still growing and building a strong digestive system. The routine builds up as the regular feeding continues.

Baby sleeps

Newborns sleep for 18-20 hours a day. They wake up to take breastfeed and this is the time when they cry and express their hunger. The babies generally wake up every 3 hours to get fed. For a healthy growth, it is important for the baby to sleep 18-20 hours a day and take regular feeds at intervals. During the wake hours parents can expect the baby to smile, wink, turn their head, look around or cry.

Monitoring and screening

The doctors at the hospital do a physical examination of the baby at the instance they are born. And it is done on a daily basis for the time the baby stays at the hospital with the mother. The discharge usually happens within 3 days for a normal delivery and 6 days for a c-section. Post the 6th day, the parents need to take assistance from nurse or make sure that themselves that the baby eats and sleeps in a healthy pattern.



Baby bath and hygiene

Newborns are sensitive. For the first 14 days touching them with bare hands can be sensitive too. It is important to cover them in clean soft clothes and take care of their hygiene. Newborns are generally wipes to clean their body and given oil massage only after a week of birth. Keeping them warm and comfortable is important!

A strong routine and love is essential to take the best care of your baby in their initial birth days! Doctor’s guidance goes a long way!

A baby massage guide to get you started. Bond with your baby now!


Traditionally, babies have always been given a massage daily just before a bath by an elderly lady in the family or a masseuse hired solely for this purpose. Today, however, the definition of baby massage is fast changing and is considered to be more of an exercise for the mother and baby to bond.

Read on to know how you can massage your little one in the initial days, from 0-4 weeks.

When should you start massaging your newborn?

Well, you can begin massaging the baby as soon as you’re home from the hospital! Some mothers prefer to wait until the baby’s umbilical cord stump has dried and fallen off, whilst others start off immediately. Whatever you choose, the key to successful massage time is being gentle and communicative with your baby.

A word of caution; if your baby is prematurely born or if for some other your doctor advises you to wait for a few days/ weeks until you can massage him, do so. Otherwise, any time is perfect to set your little one’s massage and bath routine.


How should you massage your newborn?

Do keep in mind that the idea of massaging your baby is primarily to bond with him. Use this time to softly croon to him, or talk to him, as you make him comfortable. With gentle hands, apply oil on your baby’s body in gentle, firm strokes. Massaging his scalp also helps relax him further.

Of course, before you begin, ensure that you maintain basic hygiene. Wash your hands thoroughly before handling your baby, and take care that the towels and mat on which you place the baby are also clean each time. The room should be comfortable and warm, and the lights dim. Don’t forget to cuddle your little one close as you wrap up this delightful activity for the day!

Why is a newborn massage beneficial?

Your little baby stands to benefit greatly from a regular massage. Let’s take a quick look at some of the potential benefits:

  • A sense of belonging: Your baby knows the sound of your voice, and being in this close proximity with you encourages him to bond with you more closely. Your touch is also familiar to your baby by now, and he enjoys being cuddled by you.
  • Improves physical condition: Massaging your baby improves his blood circulation, which in turn increases his blood flow and therefore overall growth. It also helps to keep him warm.
  • Betters the nervous system: Your baby’s nerves get stimulated and he is more likely to be calm and cry less. As he grows, he is also likely to be able to respond better to stress and pain. Your baby will grow to be more comfortable in his new environment.
  • Improves sleeping patterns: A rhythmic, soothing massage can help your baby’s tired little body relax and get good sleep.

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Make your baby’s first few weeks in this world enjoyable and soothing with a massage that enhances mother and baby time!

Feeding Choices

Soon after your newborn arrives, exclusive breastfeeding is the must option. As the baby grows older, you can expand the available dietary options as per the age they are at. Here are some general guidelines that would be helpful for you at different stages.

0-6 months – Exclusive breastfeeding

Soon after delivery, your body will start producing breast milk for your baby. The first feed happens as soon as possible after birth, and for the first few days, your baby will receive ‘colostrum’, a highly nutritious superfood that is exactly what your baby needs. It is a concentrated form of milk that also contains many antibodies and immunoglobulins that help build your baby’s immune system.



Alternative

Breast milk has no alternative since it is the gold standard for infant nutrition. If you are unable to breastfeed, it is good to talk to a medical professional about this..

6 months onwards – combination of breastfeeding and complementary food

The WHO recommends that for the first six months of the baby’s life, breastfeeding should be the sole source of nutrition. . You can start with soft foods, or pureed greens and fruit or even boiled vegetable puree. You can try to puree chickpeas, lentils, avocados, or leafy greens.

Start introducing solids, breastfeeding can continue till mother and child are comfortable

Breastfeeding should continue until they are one year of age at the very least. There is research to show that two LCPs – AA and DHA in particular, which naturally occur in breast milk – are important for the development of the baby’s brain, eyes, and nervous system. At 7-12 months, you can start serving a variety of options from all food groups. In the process, they will be exposed to a wide range of tastes and textures early on, and you will notice that they pick and choose.

Ensure that they get a sufficient amount of iron, as their iron requirements are steadily increasing by the time they reach this age. While weaning, ensure they get enough iron-rich foods like lean red meat, chicken, eggs, pulses, lentils, and leafy greens.

What makes breast milk so unique and perfect for your little one!

For most babies, breast milk is the very first food that they’re introduced to. It is probably more complex than the breast milk of all mammals, and is considered to be nothing short of a superfood. What makes breast milk a superfood is that it is uniquely tailored for each mother and her baby? Intrigued? Read on to know more.

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What does breast milk comprise of?

Well, a lot of factors determine something that appears to be very simple! Your breast milk is a unique combination that is determined by your diet, genetics and hormones. In addition, the environmental factors around you also contribute to its composition. Let’s say the weather changes, and it gets hotter. In such an instance, the composition of breast milk will also change, i.e. it will also contain more water. There is ongoing research to understand how breast milk is so tuned in to your baby’s demands!

The milk is rich in antibodies, fat and nutrients that are tailor made to support your baby’s growth. Research shows that a significant portion of breast milk comprises of water.

More about breast milk

Breast milk comprises of ‘foremilk’, which is the milk that the baby gets as soon as he latches on. Lighter and more watery, this satisfies the baby’s immediate hunger pangs and calms him down. It helps protect your baby from dehydration owing to its high water content. Foremilk is also bursting with proteins, vitamins and carbohydrates.

‘Hindmilk’ is the thicker component of breast milk that flows in once the baby has been nursing for a while. This portion of the milk contains more energy and fat, both which help fill your baby’s tummy and keep him pleasantly full and satisfied until his next feed.

Research has revealed that breast milk also changes as per your baby’s requirements. For instance, the fat component increases in the milk as your baby grows, to satisfy his nutritional requirements. Over time, it provides complete nutrition for the baby.

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What makes breast milk so amazing?

While we’ve established that the composition of breast milk changes to suit your baby’s needs, it’s also known that breast milk can help your baby fight off infection. For instance, if you have a cough or cold, the antibodies from your system are transferred to your baby via breast milk, thereby boosting his immunity. Extended breastfeeding helps reduce the risk of heart disease, as well as other ailments including obesity, asthma and allergies. Miraculous indeed!

The bottom line

There is no doubt that breast milk is unique and is the perfect food for your little one. While it may be difficult at the initial stages to establish a breastfeeding routine, doctors advise that you stay as stress-free as possible in order to get a good supply of breast milk. Once the baby learns to latch on well, your breastfeeding journey becomes both enjoyable and satisfying.

The Developmental Stages of the Baby at 7-12 Weeks of Pregnancy

As the weeks of pregnancy proceed, your baby goes through a series of transformations. The journey that started from a fertilized egg has now reached the stage of rapid growth. Here’s a glimpse of all the changes in the life of your developing baby.

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Baby’s Development at 7th Week

In 7 weeks, the baby has grown from a microscopic bundle of cells to a 4-10 mm long embryo. By now, the buds representing the arms become clearly visible. They take on the appearance of flat paddles before developing into functional limbs. The 7th week also marks a rapid growth phase of the nervous system.

The circulatory and the respiratory systems have also undergone significant changes. The heart starts developing left and right chambers whereas the lungs form air passages.

Baby’s Development at 8th Week

At this stage, the facial features have started to develop. In the previous week, the baby’s face had developed nostrils, structures of the mouth like lips, tongues and gums with tooth buds. Now, the jawbone, the mouth and nose start becoming more defined.

The 8th week also sees the development of the baby’s skeletal structures. More importantly, bone cells start replacing cartilage at several places. The formation and development of muscles cause the baby to make jerky movements.

Baby’s Development at 9th Week

In the following week, the baby starts developing many features. These will continue to mature over the course of pregnancy. The mouth continues to create a definite lining of gums. Taste buds begin to appear on the tongue by the end of the 9th week.

Several vital organs such as the heart, lungs, kidneys and the brain continue to develop.

Baby’s development at 10th Week

The growth and development at the 10th week have caused the baby to grow up to 4 cms. At this stage, a remarkable difference exists between the size of the head and that of the body. The head seems to be considerably larger than the rest of the body as a sign of rapid brain development. Rest of the body goes through different developmental procedures.

Baby’s Development at 11th Week

At the 11th week, the baby is between 4-5 cms long. Most bones of the face have already fused to form a definite structure. By now, the buds that represent the limbs have started developing fingers and toes. These begin to separate and become distinct from the webbed structures.

Baby’s Development at 12th Week

By the end of the first trimester, the baby’s development is far from complete. In the past few weeks, the baby’s size has doubled reaching the length of 6 cms. Around this time, you may have a glimpse of your little one through your first ultrasound scan.

While the developmental process continues, it is vital that you get adequate nutrition. So, make sure you plan and consume a healthy diet.

Weight Loss post pregnancy

Your body goes through a lot of changes during pregnancy. And, it is not easy to get yourself back in shape after childbirth. Your body needs enough time to recover from birth, and hence, it is not recommended to go on a strict diet immediately after that. This is also because you will be breastfeeding.

A crash diet is not a good idea but eating healthy is the right thing to do. Baby weight is the extra weight that is gained during pregnancy and the one which remains with you even after childbirth. This weight can be daunting, but you need to give it time. You can start basic and start with gentle exercises after a few weeks of childbirth. Post-natal check-up generally happens between 6-8 weeks after childbirth. This would be the best time to understand if there are any issues and you can ask your doctor about weight loss. While you could do that, we also list down a few ways to help you shed those extra kilos.

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Ways to lose weight:

Your baby is still dependent for nutrition on your breastmilk. Hence, make sure to eat healthy to intake all the essential nutrients.

Never miss your breakfast. Make sure you eat a healthy and heavy breakfast early in the morning. Milk and yogurt are your best friends because of the calcium content in them. They help you keep your bones strong and recover from birth.

Also include fibrous foods like fruits, beans, lentils, and grains in your diet. In addition to this, have enough proteins like sprouts, egg and lean meat.

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Avoid packed foods and harmful fats. For example, replace bread with whole grain chapati, rice with oats and fried foods with baked ones. It is best to avoid all kinds of packed foods and food items with high-level sugar. In case you have a sweet tooth, try having jaggery instead of sugar. Stock your kitchen with healthy snacks.

Exercise is a great inclusion in your weight loss plan post pregnancy. You maypractice aerobics and strength training exercises after pregnancy to keep your muscles and bones strong. If you’re uncomfortable doing the above-mentioned exercises, then brisk walking and staying active are some other ways to naturally lose weight and at the same not straining your body too much.

Know what your baby needs, talk to your doctor about the kind of diet that is required for both of you and take steps accordingly to plan your weight loss regime.

Importance of salt during pregnancy

Salt comprises of two important elements — sodium and chloride. It is an essential mineral that actively contributes to the development of your baby, and is thus, an important element in your pregnancy diet.

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The need for sodium

If there’s less sodium in your body, your muscles, nerves,and organs won’t function properly. During pregnancy, the body altersits fluid volumes to accommodate the changes occurring in your body. Sodium helps in keeping everything balanced.

How much is enough?

The ideal intake of salt falls to a maximum of 6g/day. A staggering amount is hidden in foods not prepared at home leading to a disruption in daily intake. Look out for crisps, pasta sauces, soup, sandwiches,bacon, and other ready-to-eat or processed foods. Limiting their consumption will help create a check and balances the system so that you don’t exceed your salt intake. Alternatively, you can choose using herbs or black pepper to add flavour to home-cooked meals.

Reading labels

Healthier sources comprise of seaweeds, eggs, dairy products in liquid form, fish, fruits, grains,and unsalted nuts. During food purchases, ensure to responsibly read the labels. In cases where only the sodium content is mentioned, multiply the value by a factor of 2.5 to know how much salt the product contains.

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Benefits of iodised salt

It promotes healthy development and growth of cognitive function which is normally associated with learning and problem-solving. Iodine is also used by the thyroid gland for the synthesis of its hormones which play a critical role in your baby’s effective brain and nervous system development. Deficiency can lead to stillbirth, miscarriage or abnormal brain development leading to intellectual disabilities.

Side effects of excessive salt

Although it has numerous positives when consumed in moderation, going over the limit can prove to be harmful. The most prominent side effects include high blood pressure and water retention. Excessive swelling of face, ankles, legs or feet is also observed. Since there’s a high amount of salt in the system, the kidneys process a lot of fluid. Through urination, there may be a loss of calcium from the body.

In conclusion, salt is vital during pregnancy, albeit consumed in moderation. Plus, a close watch is also to be kept over daily intake along with monitoring hormonal and blood pressure variations in the system.

These simple steps will help you write you a birth plan

The day you give birth is one of the most important days of life and you can plan the way you want your labour to be. A birth plan is an outline of your preferences during labour and birth. You will have to be flexible and understand, not everything will go as planned. But some basic things can happen as per your wish and need

You will find many formats on the internet for writing a birth plan but it is highly recommended to use your own unique format and make it simple. The doctors and nurses would not appreciate a very complicated birth plan.

Think about your requirements and pen it down. Talk to your friends who have recently delivered babies and understand what they felt about the preferences they had made.

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Introduction

Mention your and your partner’s name and your doctor and your hospital’s details.

Ambience & Atmosphere

You can mention what makes you feel most comfortable. Make notes of how many people you want around you at one given point. Do you like silence or would you prefer some music? How much light would make you feel good?

Kind of Labour

If you have decided to try normal delivery first, you should mention how you are prepared with pain management. Very few women want C-section but youought to be ready for one. You should mention options for C-section like your level of unconsciousness and if you want to have skin contact with your baby immediately after birth or otherwise.

Pain Relief

Pain management is important during labour. Talk to your doctor beforehand and decide on medicine. You may want to change it during or post labour and that’s fine but please note down the first choice. If you would like some massage for pain relief, you can mention that as well.

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Other considerations

You should mention if you want to be told the gender of your baby or would you like to find out yourself. You could also mention if you would like to keep a mirror during birth or no, whether you want your partner to be a part of the entire pregnancy or just during a few stages.

Once you are happy with the birth plan you have written, share it with your partner and midwife. Be prepared of last moment changes that you may have to face.

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Your Pregnancy Diet: Fruits and Vegetables

As soon as you tested positive for pregnancy, you must have started browsing for what to and what not to eat. Since your baby is all dependent on you for their nutrition requirement, you want to make healthy food choices. And, a nutritious pregnancy plate is not complete without certain fruits and vegetables.

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Why to include fruits and vegetables in your diet

Fruits and vegetables not only add variety and colour to your diet but also supports your health and provides for your baby’s development. A good amount of nutrition can be obtained for you and your baby by having fruits and vegetables as a part of your daily diet. Key nutrients such as carotenoids, folate and magnesium are present in various fruits and vegetables. One major reason to include them on a daily basis is to keep a check on your baby’s birth weight or other complications at the time of birth. A well-balanced diet with proper proportion of this food group gives you a comparatively high level of nutrients per calorie. Vegetables in particular have proven to be a good choice when it comes to your baby’s weight at the time of birth. Antioxidants are required to battle the harmful organisms present in the environment. To give your baby an access to these antioxidants, fruits and vegetables should be a part of your daily food intake.

Which fruits and vegetables to include

  • Vitamin E can help prevent asthma. Introduce it in your diet by consuming spinach and broccoli.
  • Vitamin C helps to boost immunity and prevents the risk of anaemia. Oranges, tomatoes, broccoli, red, green and yellow peppers are good sources of vitamin C.
  • Include avocados, bananas,dark leafy vegetables for good amount of potassium to keep your blood pressure in check.
  • Having spinach, asparagus helps to reduce the risk of neural tube defects as they are rich in iron and folic acid.
  • Good care should be taken for your baby’s bone development. For this, include calcium-rich vegetables like broccoli, brussels sprouts, green french beans.
  • Having leafy vegetables and apples tend to decrease wheeziness in infants.
  • Potatoes, carrots and oranges might reduce the probability of childhood eczema.
  • The fibre contained in bananas aids with digestion issues during pregnancy. They have also been known to relieve nausea and vomiting in many women during early pregnancy.
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What is the right amount to consume

Make sure to have at least 5 portions of fruits and 4 servings of vegetables daily for a healthy pregnancy. This is popularly termed as ‘5-a-day’ guideline. A minimum of 400g of fruits and vegetables should be a part of your daily diet for a healthy pregnancy. You can also make them a part of your diet through smoothies, snacks or juices without adding salt or sugar. While you consume fruits and vegetables, make sure you keep a control on the sugar intake contributed due to their consumption.

For a smooth pregnancy, your health and that of your baby’s is of utmost importance. Simple addition of the right fruits and vegetables can significantly improve health of both of you.

Breastfeed your baby right now to make him healthy

Breastfeeding is the best gift you can give to your baby. Your breast milk contains enough nutrients that keep your baby healthy and immune. Till he is 6 months old, it is important that you exclusively breastfeed him. Here are some important points that you should note so that you can smoothly pass through the breastfeeding phase.

The positioning of the baby

Your baby should latch on to your breast properly so that you can nurse him properly. Take proper care of this because, otherwise, it might lead to nipple soreness. If you experience pain during feeding, the reason might be that your baby is not latching on properly. To avoid this, keep changing positions and find a comfortable position for you and your baby. How do you know your baby is latched on to your breast properly?

His whole body should be faced towards you during feeding. If properly latched, their lower lip will be curled back and above your baby’s top lip will be the dark skin around your nipples. If you have problems with holding your baby or making him latch on to your breast, you should have an open discussion with the lactation consultant at the hospital immediately after your delivery.

This professional will train you on various aspects such as maintaining skin-skin contact with the baby while nursing, sitting or lying down in a comfortable position while feeding, placing the baby in a position where it is easy for him to swallow the milk as he nurses and more.

Is your baby getting enough?

As a new mother, this is a question that keeps coming in your mind always – Am I feeding enough milk to my baby? You want to know if he is feeling full. Though there is no hard and fast rule to know these, you can make out if your baby is well-fed or not, by observing his actions. If their cheeks look rounded and well while you feed, it is a good sign. Also, if you observe a movement around his ears, it indicates he is swallowing.

Breast milk is very easy to digest and your baby may require to be fed once every 1.5 hours. So do not worry if your baby needs milk frequently. It is recommended that you feed him for 20 minutes at a time, from one breast. And if he falls asleep while feeding, try to gently wake him up.


Increasing milk production in your breast

Apart from holding your baby properly and making him latch on to your breast properly, you can also increase the milk production in your breast. You can give cold compresses or warm compresses to your breasts often to improve the milk secretion This is especially fruitful for small babies or slow feeders.

An important tip that you have to remember is to offer both your breasts for nursing per feed. This will ensure that there is uniform milk production in both the breasts. As your baby grows, he will start teething. So when you nurse him, you may experience sore nipples. However, compressions and frequent feeds should help you get rid of this soreness easily.

In short, you should position your baby well so that he can latch on to your breasts well. This is the first step to ensure that you get comfortable with your breastfeeding procedure.